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Unlocking Success: Interpersonal Skills and the Power of a Growth Mindset, with Kirk Mielenz

Updated: Oct 31, 2023

(You can also view on Spotify or listen to it on Apple Podcasts. )

In today's unpredictable business landscape, strong leadership and the ability to cultivate meaningful relationships are essential. In our recent (and new!) Trailblazing for Success podcast, Kirk, CEO of RevGen Partners, shared valuable insights into the significance of interpersonal skills when creating relationships and the importance of a growth mindset in leadership. Here are the key takeaways!

The Enduring Value of Relationships

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Kirk emphasized that, regardless of one's position in an organization, the value of business relationships remains paramount. He noted that while the dynamics of relationship-building may have shifted due to factors like the COVID-19 pandemic, the core principles remain unchanged.

Kirk's approach to soft skills relationship-building comprises several essential components:

  1. Proactive Networking: Waiting for the perfect moment to connect with your network is no longer an option. Kirk suggests maintaining regular contact with a select group of key individuals who can impact your personal and professional growth.

  2. Value Addition: Building strong relationships involves giving back and offering value, rather than merely seeking assistance. Kirk advocates for creative approaches to contributing to the success of your network.

  3. Mission-Driven Networking: Instead of relying on large, generic networking events, Kirk encourages smaller, purpose-driven gatherings and volunteer activities. These not only create more meaningful connections but also unite participants with a shared sense of purpose.

The Evolution of Networking

Traditional networking events, such as golf tournaments, have evolved into more unique and

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engaging activities. As an example, Kirk mentioned hosting an "pickleball event" to illustrate how creativity and innovation can successfully bring people together. These innovative events not only stand out but also provide a refreshing change from the routine.

Adopting a Growth Mindset in Leadership

Kirk discussed the importance of instilling a growth mindset in leadership, a concept that centers on the belief that anyone can learn anything. He offered valuable insights into how leaders can foster this mindset within their teams:

  1. Abundance and Growth: Shifting from a fixed mindset to an abundance mindset, which believes in limitless opportunities for learning and development, is crucial.

  2. Empower Others: Kirk underlined that a leader's role is not merely a position; it is a privilege to empower others to reach their full potential.

  3. Staying Curious and Less Certain: Leaders should maintain a sense of curiosity and avoid becoming too certain about what team members can or cannot achieve. This flexibility encourages continuous growth.

Kirk underscored the continued importance of building and nurturing relationships in a rapidly changing business environment. Additionally, it highlights the significance of adopting a growth mindset, not only for leaders but for all employees within an organization.

These principles empower individuals and teams to thrive in a world of uncertainty and change. The ability to foster strong relationships and embrace a growth mindset is essential for success in leadership and professional development. Kirk's podcast is a must-listen for those seeking guidance on how to excel in today's ever-evolving business landscape.


Kirk Mielenz: Kirk is fiercely passionate about the long-term success of his colleagues and clients, his kids and the local Denver community. As Chief Executive, Kirk consistently exceeds client objectives through his abilities to synthesize complex business information quickly and navigate sensitive situations. Prior to co-founding RevGen Partners, Kirk held positions at Hitachi Consulting and Arthur Andersen where he led teams on numerous high-profile client engagements. Kirk is currently serving on the boards of directors at the Denver Metro Chamber of Commerce, and CollegeInvest. He is the proud father of three school-age children and enjoys playing doubles tennis with his wife.

RevGen Partners is a full-service business and technology consulting firm headquartered in Denver, Colorado.


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